A daring ride Aiden and I made...

[My dear ones, I am reposting this earlier blog I wrote about Aiden to go with the more detailed blog about him I just posted.]

To be daring one must be more than a little crazy at times, mixed with a courageous spark igniting serendipity into a flame...💥

In my other blog just now, "My dear dear Aiden," I wrote about my 5'11" Aiden, whose horse Sierra had bonded with Patches and brought us together.  Sierra had been a huge challenge for Aiden to catch.  That is, until Patches and I came along.😃🐎 

Sierra became attached to Patches, and since Patches always came running to me, Sierra did too.  So Aiden timed his visits to the farm with mine.  It wasn't long before we were deeply in love, and became each other's "THE ONE," before he tragically died in a freak drowning accident.😢

One day we discovered an amazing mile long horse trail with many hairpin turns.  On each sides of the trail were trees, rocky cliffs with high drop offs far below and a rushing creek in places.  At the very end of the trail was a huge fence, with a major highway just beyond.

When we reached the end, and turned the horses around, they became excited, knowing we were heading back.  And that's when Aiden had an idea.😍

"Adelaide, let's gallop all the way back!"

"But honey, what about those turns?  Did you notice those BIG drop offs?!!"

You see, by then I was older, even wiser, and just a bit LESS crazy than I was jumping off cliffs into the depths of oblivion and hanging upside down by my legs from a rope swing high over rocky ravines.😂

"Aww, common, let's try it!  I think it will be FUN!"

"Well okay, I'm in!  Let's do it!  We should take..."

Before I could finish, Aiden took off on Sierra, with Patches leaping into a fast gallop right behind her.  It was one of the wildest, most thrilling rides I have ever had.  

I am not kidding, on some of those hairpin turns, Patches and I were going so fast, when he leaned into the curve, my face was inches from the ground!  On one of the curves I saw nothing but the depths FAR below the edge.😱

Since Patches was much smaller than Sierra, he was galloping very fast to keep up, so OUR ride was indeed thrilling.  Certainly different than fast gallops across fields!

After we finally came to a stop, Aiden let out a huge,
"WOW!  THAT WAS INCREDIBLE!  Sierra was really flying!  Yet Patches stayed right behind!  When I  glanced back once, he was leaning into the turn so fast you looked like you were hanging over the abyss!"

"Because I WAS hanging over the abyss!  This was AMAZING!  I LOVED it!"

"What were you trying to say to me when we took off?"

"We should really take care around those turns..."🤣

On Christmas Day about three months before Aiden died, there was about a foot of fresh snow on the ground.  He was especially anxious we take the horses out for a ride to a clearing beyond the fields into the woods.

"Now?!!"

"Especially now."

So off we went and the scene was magical.  It was late in the day, with the bright setting sun shining through the trees on the snow.  When we reached the clearing, Aiden suddenly dismounted Sierra.

"Why are you dismounting?  The snow is so deep here..."

"THIS...is why."

And that is when Aiden took a ring out of his pocket, placed it on my finger, and asked if I would marry him.

He said my courageous daring spirit was one of the things he fell in love with.🥰

I still wear the ring on my ring finger, and always will.  Though separated by tragedy, I belong to him because Aiden forever has my heart.💫💕🐎💕💫